1. ATTRACTIVENESS IS BOTH SEEN AND HEARD
Mind your mouth and be kind to people, nobody is less than you, they just have different “secret powers”.
2. ENHANCE YOUR NATURAL BEAUTY AND FEATURES
Use makeup to complement your skin, eyes, lips and cheekbones but let confidence promote your natural beauty and attractiveness.
3. LEAVE YOUR EGO BEHIND
Look for someone who brings enough similarities to foster harmony, yet differences that cause life to be interesting, dynamic and complementary. Compatibility and chemistry aren’t always instant and can be found where you least expect it. Watch video.
4. OWN YOUR BEAUTY
If getting a few subtle procedures done here and there will raise your self-worth then by all means go for it, but be aware of your reasoning. Are you just competing with others and conforming to society’s current construct of beauty and losing yourself to vanity? Ask yourself what part of yourself are you not loving? Is your beauty only dependent on what your finances allow?
Let’s not promote inferiority, imperfections are what make you perfect!
5. LEARN TO CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS
Consider how your actions affect others. Emotional Intelligence is a learnt skill. A great place to start is with the best selling book called Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman
6. ATTRACT THE RIGHT PERSON
Instead of focusing on what life is doing to you, focus on what life is doing FOR you. Every experience has a lesson or blessing.
7. DROP THE DRAMA
Look back over your past relationships and decide what you never want to happen again. Start having your own back when it comes to toxic behaviour. Create boundaries and Teach people how to treat you (watch video to learn more). If you are the one who creates the drama be kind to yourself and seek the help of a professional who can help you get over the trauma that is causing the drama.
8. DRESS WITH CONFIDENCE
Be yourself, dress for your body shape, own who you are, don’t allow society to dictate to you what looks good.
Bonus tip for the ladies
Guys don’t care if you are carrying a few extra kilo’s or have a bit of cellulite the need to be perfect is often to complete with other women so you can attract the man you want. It’s time to give guys more credit and not assume they are all superficial. Get comfortable being YOU…..men are GOING TO SEE YOU without your makeup on, with your morning bed hair, when you’ve just come out of the shower, after you’ve been crying… He’s going to see all of it and what he’s going to fall in love with and what is beautiful to him is a girl who is REAL, who is comfortable in her own skin and takes pride in who she is. Someone who isn’t fake, someone who is kind and compassionate, owns her own life and understands her value and self-worth.
You have got this ladies….
Bonus tip for Guys
Guys, it isn’t just up to the ladies to make an effort. If you want to attract the right girl you too need to own your body, learn to dress it appropriately, make the best of your shape and your genetics. Learn how to groom yourself and how to dress; your unpolished shoes and out of style wardrobe, just don’t cut it when it comes to attraction and that hairstyle since high school may need a refresh! NO! you don’t have to ditch the thongs and start wearing a tie, but sharpen up a little and make an effort. If you need a helping hand, there is an abundance of guys grooming websites or seek out a stylist (a small investment that will pay dividends for life). Ultimately ladies aren’t as fussy as you think, they just want a man who has the confidence to have her back, who makes an effort, is kind, has drive and treats her with respect. Chivalry is not dead.
WISHING YOU LOVE, ALWAYS,
Louanne Ward x